My whole life I have enjoyed playing “house”. I played it with my sister when we were growing up, with our neighbors and dearest friends, and even at school. I always wanted to be the mom, or the older sister. Mostly because I liked being in charge I suppose, but for other reasons too. I always thought it would be fun to cook the meals and clean the house and wash the dishes etc. It also meant I got to make the decisions like what the house looked like, and what we ate for dinner (cookie dough anyone?) But I guess maybe I didn’t see the whole picture.
Don’t get me wrong. I lovelovelove being a wife. I love taking care of our home and serving my husband. Really I do. I’m not trying to sound like I’m complaining or I regret anything. I just guess I’m learning the difference in playing house, and having a home and family.
I probably didn’t think about the fact that I would have to think of what to eat EVERYDAY and try not to repeat foods too much (even though I could eat mashed potatoes and roasted broccoli with every meal…delish.)
Or that in order to get the groceries to make those meals you have to 1)have money to go buy them and 2) actually go to the grocery store. Bleh.
Oh and let’s not forget that after you cook that meal you are going to have to wash the dishes, and put them back up simply to dirty them all again.
When I played house we had fake money, fake dishes, and ate candy that grew on trees, or food made of leaves for dinner everyday. It was so.much.easier.
There are definitely things in real life that are better though. I have beautiful Fiesta dishes that I get to eat on everyday and honestly, they just make me happy. I love Fiesta. (Which by the way made it’s way into the top 10 made in the USA products)
And ya know, I do get to choose what we eat for dinner which is really good when you are craving something, and I really enjoy cooking and combining the foods to make delicious meals. It really is a good thing.
We have been blessed with money to be able to go buy the groceries we need. Even if it’s not the organic version I want, or the name brand special kind, we are still provided for and that is a blessing that can’t be experienced when you are playing house with fake money.
Most importantly I have a wonderful husband to sit down and eat dinner with, who also helps me clean up afterwards. He never complains when I burn something or dinner is an hour late. I definitely didn’t have that when I was playing house.
So I guess playing house isn’t that great after all, but I know having a home sure is.
(ps this a wreath I made for our front door. I love it:)
What do you enjoy about having your own home and family? What are the blessings you experience through this, even if they are blessings in disguise?